# Devyn Stone

> Leatherman. Educator. Coach. Author.


## Posts

- [](https://devynstone.com/222-2/): ​Ah, protocol. Some would call it the “bread and butter” of power exchange and authority transfer dynamics. In the last book of his “Quick Reference Rainbow” series, Devyn Stone, takes a deep dive into personal […]
- [Convention Preparation](https://devynstone.com/211-2/): “Convention Preparation”  ​​Planning to attend your first BDSM convention can be daunting. It may seem like there are a lot of questions and no answers. If you are having trouble deciding what to wear, how […]
- [Areas of Control](https://devynstone.com/control/): “Areas of Control”  ​​The “Areas of Control” are sections of a person’s life in which authority can be exercised. The categories are divided by type. They include things like medical decisions, hair color, educational opportunities, […]
- [DAMN! That's A Nice Ash!](https://devynstone.com/damn-thats-a-nice-ash-2/)

## Pages

- [Updates](https://devynstone.com/updates/)
- [Resources](https://devynstone.com/resources/): BDSM Educators Expand Apollo Bound Ashely Robertson Dawn Sparkles Foxy Feisty Redhead HannahTheScribe Hope Lythi House of Just House of Kush House of Yue HG Wyndell JBaby Kink Academy Lady D Leather Heart Clan Lee […]
- [Shop & Support](https://devynstone.com/support/): 5 Easy Ways to Support Devyn Devyn’s Favorite! Help him grow his Living Dead Doll Collection Donate BuyMeACoffee Expand https://www.buymeacoffee.com/DevynStone CashApp: $AffirmingMatters Expand CashApp: $AffirmingMatters Venmo: @AffirmingMatters Expand Venmo: @AffirmingMatters PayPal: AffirmingMatters@gmail.com Expand PayPal: AffirmingMatters@gmail.com […]
- [Resume](https://devynstone.com/resume/): Resume Click HERE for Devyn’s Professional Overview & Collaboration Guide   Devyn Stone, ECIP-E (he/him) is a queer, neurodivergent, and disabled author and Equity-Centered Inclusive Practices Educator focused on trauma-informed, neuroinclusive leadership and authority transfer […]
- [Books](https://devynstone.com/books/): Books by Devyn Recalculating Paperback – EBook – Audiobook Autographed Paperback Recalculating introduces the foundations of BDSM culture to newcomers. It covers key terms, negotiation, consent, agency, roles, risk, etiquette, and community traditions. You’ll learn […]
- [Calendar](https://devynstone.com/calendar/)
- [Home](https://devynstone.com/): Upcoming Appearances In person events will be marked with their physical location (City, State). February 2026 Expand February 19, 2026     EDGE Session: Payment & Financial Access: Ethics, Labor, and Sustainability February 20, 2026    […]
- [Coaching & Consulting](https://devynstone.com/coaching/): Consulting & Coaching with Devyn Devyn Stone, ECIP-E (he/him) is a neurodivergent, disabled author and educator who helps people and organizations build clearer, more accessible, and more intentional relationships, structures, and systems. He offers coaching […]
- [Classes](https://devynstone.com/classes/): Want to Book a Class? Click HERE for Devyn’s Professional Overview & Collaboration Guide Click HERE for Class Reviews Review a Class Who? Dungeons and conferences aren’t the only ones who can book Devyn for […]
- [Home Old](https://devynstone.com/home-old/): DEVYN STONE Devyn Stone A.K.A. SirHorror (He/Him) is a transgender, dominant leatherman who has been actively practicing nonmonogamy and authority transfer since 2004. He has overcome tremendous odds including abuse, trauma and mental illness to […]


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