The “Areas of Control” are sections of a person's life in which authority can be exercised. The categories are divided by type. They include things like medical decisions, hair color, educational opportunities, diet and many more. This quick reference guide lays out each “area” and its subsequent categories. It is designed to get you thinking and talking about your power exchange or authority transfer dynamic in a whole new way. Whether you are new to authority transfer or a veteran of the practice, whether your dynamic is just starting or has lasted a lifetime you will find something in this guide for you!

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Planning to attend your first BDSM convention can be daunting. It may seem like there are a lot of questions and no answers. If you are having trouble deciding what to wear, how to schedule your time and how you can afford a BDSM convention… This is the book for you. Devyn Stone, a former event coordinator turned BDSM author and educator, gives you all the tips! Learn what to expect at a BDSM conference, how to behave, what to pack AND how to plan your schedule and budget. Inside you will also find a master packing list and even a few conferences to add to your bucket list!

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Ah, protocol. Some would call it the “bread and butter” of power exchange and authority transfer dynamics. In the last book of his "Quick Reference Rainbow" series, Devyn Stone, takes a deep dive into personal protocols in BDSM dynamics. You will get a glimpse straight into the practical application of protocols. You will learn what protocol is, how to determine if it is for you, how to implement and create your own protocols! True to the series, this book is quick, concise, easy to read, and practical!

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Have an organizing kink? This may be just the guide for you! Hunker down with your partner and organize your dynamic details. Whether you are just beginning or you are celebrating 20 years, take some time to archive your unique relationship. This quick reference guide lays out examples and prompts for: Protocol, personal preferences, tracking progress, and even chronicling your dynamic history. It is designed to get you thinking and talking about your authority transfer dynamic in a whole new way. Devyn Stone offers you a practical model for keeping all your information in one place, so you can revisit it as often as you need! The thorough, yet concise, approach to Organizational Authority Transfer laid out in these pages is sure to become a staple in your protocols for dynamic maintenance.

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Do you enjoy BDSM play? This may be just the guide for you! Let's get into the details of negotiation. Whether you are just beginning or have been playing for decades, take some time to analyze your negotiation tactics. This quick reference guide lays out examples and prompts for: Consent, personal responsibility, risk, and even a quick negotiation guide! It is designed to get you thinking and talking about your BDSM scenes in a whole new way. Devyn Stone offers you a practical model for negotiating and discovering limits and boundaries. The thorough, yet concise, approach to Personal Responsibility laid out in these pages is sure to become a staple in your BDSM practice.

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"This is a quick and easy read for a subject so complex!" The resounding comment from anyone that read the manuscript is the best way to describe this book. It really is quick! A 30 minute read could change your life. This book does not pretend to be the end all of gender variant literature. What it WILL do is help you get a good first step under your belt. Devyn Stone, BDSM author and educator, takes you into some of his experiences as a trans man in the BDSM and Leather communities to help you do better. From gender-affirming dungeons to play negotiation with gender variant individuals, you will learn something new on every page!

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