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Upcoming Appearances

In person events will be marked with their physical location (City, State).

WHO IS DEVYN STONE?

Master (Devyn) Stone is a queer, neurodivergent, and disabled author, educator, and DEI consultant whose work centers on trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming, and decolonizing approaches to sexuality, leadership, and authority transfer education. A Leatherman, dominant, and community organizer, he has practiced authority transfer dynamics since 2004 and has been teaching and mentoring in the field since 2014. He currently resides in Detroit with his property, Guan-Xuan.

Devyn is the author of DAMN! That’s A Nice Ash! A Comprehensive Guide to Cigar Service & Play, Why I Don’t Own Them... Yet..., and The Quick Reference Rainbow series—concise guides designed to make concepts like relational ethics and protocol more accessible for neurodivergent learners and leaders. As the founder of Pragmatically Kinking, he developed a virtual education platform that hosts practical, community-centered classes focused on real-world applications of kink and relationship dynamics. He also serves as Executive Producer of THRIVE, a virtual conference dedicated to the intersection of neurodivergence, mental health, and BDSM, where staff and educators who opt in are compensated through community donations.

His educational philosophy is rooted in liberation: learning as an act of healing, community as a site of resistance, and education as a pathway toward collective freedom. Devyn offers more than twenty classes and has taught over three hundred sessions worldwide, engaging individuals, organizations, and events in building decolonizing, trauma-informed systems of consent, leadership, accessibility, and authority transfer.

He believes in diversity, not division—a principle that guides his lifelong commitment to creating affirming, equitable, and inclusive spaces.

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Annual Students' Showcase

Unabashed Queer Kink Con

October 10-12, 2025

Denver, CO

unabashed is a queer kink con where participants are not just encouraged but required to be involved in the intentional co-creation of community. when we say “intentional community,” we mean that we cannot do this without each and every participant. everyone attending will be required to have a workshift at some point during the weekend.

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Welcome to the practical side of the lifestyle! This isn't the place to learn some hot new play technique or cruise for new play partners. It's where folks discuss the practical and emotional side of the BDSM/Kink/Leather/Nonmonogamy lifestyle. Find out more on Fetlife and Facebook!

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THRIVE is a 3 day virtual conference aimed to bring mental health awareness, smash stigma, build support, and provide a space for BDSM/kink/Leather folx to learn, grow, and connect by moving through shame and discovering the warrior within. Check us out on Facebook and Fetlife!

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